Today was the National Day of Prayer. Twelve years ago I was involved in a car accident when a driver decided to make a right turn from the middle lane causing me to flip over and slide through the intersection.

Car Wreck

Me observing the damage.

This was the first time in my life that I actually called out to God in fear for my life.  I remember a mob of people surrounding the car. I was hanging upside down with the seat belt holding me in, of course my first instinct was to release the seat belt. Not thinking I came crashing down on my head. I start hearing somebody yelling that my legs looked broken. I kept looking down wondering if they were, but then wondering to myself, “wouldn’t I be feeling pain.”

Someone offered to make a  call for me, so I had them call my wife.  I was only a block from home.  As soon as she gets there, she is in sheer panic.  In the softest voice I kept telling her that “I’m OK.”  Then out of nowhere a stranger knelt down next to the car, put his hand on me and started praying.  When he was done he got up, told my wife that I would be OK.

I am now hearing the sirens of the first responders, and just like that they reached in and pulled me out.  My wife remembers freaking out when she saw me vanish from the other side.  The fireman made sure I was OK and removed some glass particles from my face.

Then it all sunk in what had just happened to me.  I broke down and cried.  I cried because of what I had just walked away from, and the fact that a perfect stranger had the compassion to go out of his way and pray for me.  Never saw him again or got his name.  Whoever you are, Thank You!

I did go to the emergency just to be safe, everything was OK.  It took me a year before I got behind the wheel again.  I got to know public transportation pretty well.

I just have one request, keep National Day of Prayer.


It amazes me how people will allow weather to dictate whether or not you are going to do something.  OK, I understand if there is ice on the road or 10ft. snow drifts.  I am talking something like a shower or sprinkle.  Yesterday we started swim lessons with the boys at an outdoor facility.  We had been getting a good dose of rain for the majority of the day.  When it came time to go to the pool, the rain had slowed to an occasional sprinkle.  I mean your going to get wet in the pool any way, as long as there is no thunder or lightning.

So only half the class showed up for Jr’s class, and Jacob was the only one in his class.  The one on one attention was nice though.  I think they charged double the amount for private lessons.  I guess people can do what they want, it’s there money.  I just don’t get missing out on something because of some rain that wasn’t even falling.  How many possible memories are lost because of this kind of behavior?

Let me know what you think.


Here are some chick flicks that a dude can sleep thru:

  1. Message in a Bottle
  2. Little Women
  3. Beaches
  4. Mermaids
  5. The Joy Luck Club
  6. Four Weddings and a Funeral
  7. Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood

Please feel free to add to the list by leaving a comment.


Chick flicks a dude can watch:

  • Sixteen Candles (Farmer Ted)
  • When Harry Met Sally (fake orgasm)
  • You’ve Got Mail (geeky)
  • Pretty Woman (Julia Roberts)
  • Terms of Endearment (The Astronaut)
  • An Officer and a Gentlemen (Louis Gossett Jr.)
  • A League of There Own (baseball)
  • Jerry Maguire (football)
  • As Good as it Gets (Jack Nicholson)

What would you add or take away from this list?


Here is something I grabbed from my squidoo page.

And whoever does not provide for relatives and especially family members has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. I Timothy 5:8 (NAB)

This video clip may have been taken out of context, I have not seen the full sermon. So I am not going to rip John Hagee for this clip, but give my fair explanation. Now I realize that there are different versions of the Bible, but because I am Catholic I am using the NAB version. Now everyone has different interpretations of what they read, including the Bible. This even includes ministers and priest. They are humans too. Here is how I interpret the verse above. If you sit around, sleep late, eat, sleep some more, allow your kids to go without diaper changes, do not seek medical attention for your kids when they are sick, just flat out negligent and oblivious to what is going on around you, then yes…you are worse then an unbeliever. Now I believe that providing for your family is not just limited to money. Stay at home parents do quite a bit of providing. There is taking care of the kids, taking care of the house, laundry, cooking meals, grocery shopping, and handling home economics. Stay at home dads do even more. Like the things dads just do, like mowing the lawn, fixing broken this and that, taking out the trash. Now in our house I am not a very good cook. I do cook dinner for the boys, but she will cook for us when she gets home or walk me through something while in transit. We go grocery shopping as a family, she handles all the coupon stuff, she is really good at it. It is all about team work, we each provide for our family in certain ways for certain things. So…Am I going to hell?



As we were taking care of PT duties this morning, Robert Jr. points at the rug and says “Do you see that really cool car?”  I am like where? “There daddy, right there.”  So I start to point at different areas of the rug, “that’s the front of the car, that’s the back of the car, there is the back seat.”  What an imagination!  All I could find was something that resembled a tire.  What do you see?

What do you see?

What do you see?


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